Therefore Having Gone
Monday, February 28, 2022
BEREA
Sunday, February 27, 2022
BLEAK CIRCUMSTANCES
Saturday, February 26, 2022
PAY IT FORWARD
I've heard other people talk about it but this morning was the first time I experienced it for myself: Some stranger in line in front of me paid for my Starbucks order.
It was an unusual Saturday morning in that Melissa was scheduled to help out with a church program. She planned to stop at Starbucks on her way to get a special treat of caffeine to help her through.
When she started running behind schedule, I offered to be the considerate husband who would sit in the drive thru line to get her drink so she could still get to church on time.
Imagine my joy when I pulled up to the second window and the barista handed me my wife's Decaf Mocha Latte with Oatmilk and 1 Stevia - but then refused to take my card.
"The car in front of you paid for your order," she chirped.
I've heard how these chains of generosity can go on all morning as each driver pays for the order of the car to follow. What a beautiful world of generosity and selflessness! So blessed to receive and to give!
A reminder of the brotherhood of man on a morning when the world was watching man's inhumanity to man unfold along the borders of Ukraine.
So I said, "Well, I guess I should pay for the car behind me. How much is their order?"
"$12.67."
Sorry.
No way I am paying that much for coffee.
Friday, February 25, 2022
SLEEP WIMP
Thursday, February 24, 2022
TIMING
In Acts 16, Paul, Silas and Timothy are on the move.
But not quite sure where they are going!
All they know is that they are to preach the gospel.
They attempt to enter the Province of Asia.
But they are "kept from it" by the Holy Spirit.
Then they try to enter Bithynia.
But the Holy Spirit "does not allow it".
That night, Paul has a vision of a man from Macedonia standing and begging for help.
The next day they head straight to Philippi, the first city they can reach within Macedonia.
I must ask you: Isn't this dependence on direction from the Holy Spirit - as they are moving - just awesome?
This is how I want to live.
Were there not people in Asia and Bithynia needing to hear the gospel?
Undoubtedly there were. Multitudes!
So why didn't the Holy Spirit send the disciples into the first place they came to?
I can only conclude that it wasn't about the need. It was about the timing.
The Lord has his own timing. And it is perfect.
We must always remember: He KNOWS things we don't know.
Lots of things.
Wednesday, February 23, 2022
WORSE THAN BIAS
Tuesday, February 22, 2022
BOOK CRITIQUES
- Richard Foster's Celebration of Discipline (1978)
- Dallas Willard's The Spirit of the Disciplines (1988)
- Donald Whitney's Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life (1991)
- Too Catholic.
- Too unaffiliated.
- Too Calvinist. (And not Calvinist enough!)
Monday, February 21, 2022
THE RIGHT TOOL
Sunday, February 20, 2022
SAINT MACHAR'S
In front of our house, the daffodils are starting to pop up from the cold, winter ground. It won't be long now!
Saturday, February 19, 2022
VENGEFULNESS
We should include an important footnote with yesterday's description of what Paul and Barnabas experienced in Lystra.
You remember that while the Lystrans ultimately stoned Paul to near death, they had first worshiped him. Or at least attempted to.
Paul and Barnabas told these people to "turn from these worthless things" - meaning their devotion to Zeus - and that could not have gone over well. Calling out someone's religious beliefs as false? That's a tough sell.
But this wasn't the only hurdle in the disciples' path.
In fact, even after Paul and Barnabas finish speaking Truth, they still "had difficulty keeping the crowd from sacrificing to them". (Acts 14:18)
By the end of verse 19, the Lystrans are stoning Paul and dragging him outside the city, thinking he is dead.
What is the catalyst? Just look at the beginning of verse 19: "Then some Jews came from Antioch and Iconium and won the crowd over."
These are the same leaders who chased Paul out of Antioch by stirring up the "God-fearing women" of the city (Acts 13:50) now teamed up with the leaders who "stirred up the Gentiles and poisoned their minds against the brothers" in Iconium (14:2).
It wasn't enough for these folks to chase Paul and Barnabas out of their towns, they were out to destroy them and their reputations.
They actually followed the disciples. Tracked them down. And they weren't satisfied until they had turned other people against the disciples.
An important lesson that I pray Life never has occasion to teach you directly: Never underestimate the strength of vengefulness as a motivator. Or the destruction it leaves in its wake.
It's not a lesson anyone ever needs to be taught twice.
Friday, February 18, 2022
LYSTRA
AVOIDING CONTROVERSY
Wednesday, February 16, 2022
OUTSOURCING OPINIONS
Tuesday, February 15, 2022
ACCEPT
It's common to hear preachers and everyday Christians alike speak about the need for unbelievers to "accept Jesus into their hearts".
"When I was 17, I accepted Jesus into my heart."
"At Vacation Bible School we had 13 kids accept Jesus into their hearts!"
"If you are ready to accept Jesus into your heart, come to the altar as the worship team plays."
It's a phrase you hear on many lips.
But never see in the Bible.
How do we justify that?
And what does it even mean to "accept" Jesus "into your heart"?
Does anybody know?
As I have read slowly through Matthew and now into Acts, it's hard to miss this fact: the push is never to "accept".
The key word is always "repent".
It seems to me that in a modern American church, it might be possible to be a member for years - even decades - without ever being challenged to repent.
But is it possible to even begin an authentic Christian journey without repentance?
Monday, February 14, 2022
PRAYER UNTETHERED
Yesterday I wrote about Scripture-less prayer having real world consequences. In the best case scenario, we ask for the wrong thing and the worst consequence is wasted time. Ours and God's.
It is when we "hear God's direction" through our untethered prayers that the consequences can become destructive - to ourselves and others.
What is the best way to be certain the voice we hear is really God's? I would say we can have confidence when the instructions, tone, and priorities align with God's voice and character as expressed through his word.
I feel strongly about this for good reason. I (and my wife) have been on the receiving end of serious repercussions of untethered prayer.
But I will share here only my own experience (though my wife had it worse) and I will leave all names out.
Sunday, February 13, 2022
PRAYER WITHOUT FOUNDATION
Saturday, February 12, 2022
CONVICTION
Friday, February 11, 2022
LOPSIDED CHRISTIANITY
The Apostle John urged his “dear children” to “not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.” (1 John 3:18)
The stress is on the word “and”:
Love with actions AND in truth.
In recent decades the American church has split into two camps: Actions OR Truth.
The authors of Churches that Make a Difference*, summarize this divide well:
“One branch, quoting the Great Commission, claims nothing is as important as leading individuals to a saving relationship with Jesus Christ.”
The other side “stresses that the calling of Christians is to care for those who are poor and to seek justice.”
Sider, Olson, and Unruh conclude: “Both sides have it partly right - but neither has the whole picture.” (p. 45)
The result is what they call “lopsided Christianity”.
As always, Jesus should be our role model. He found no conflict in balancing his time and attention between preaching the message of “Repent, for the Kingdom of God is near” while also feeding the hungry, healing the sick, and setting the oppressed free from the demons seeking to ruin them.
Love in action AND truth.
This is what gets me excited about serving with Mission Resource International. It might seem like such an organization is bound to be a bit slanted toward "loving in action". What some would call (sometimes with a sneer) the "social gospel".
But I am finding that MRI actually strives to maintain balance in the work God has called us to. Yes, the Lord has given us the privilege to serve in places where we see hungry people fed and willing people employed.
But we have also seen lost people finding the Savior and local churches strengthened.
And THAT sort of holy balance is exciting to me.
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*Ronald Sider, Philip Olson, and Heidi Unruh, Churches that Make a Difference, 2002.
Thursday, February 10, 2022
GHOSTWRITING
Wednesday, February 9, 2022
PARENTAL ADVICE WIN
It is a few minutes after 3:00 pm. My daughter's school day has ended and she has entered the school auditorium by now, God willing.
As I write this, I am anxiously awaiting a verdict. Was yesterday's parental advice to Sarah wise?
Or did we set her up for trauma?
Sarah came home from school yesterday torn. Her school is pulling together a musical in the next few weeks and Sarah would love to be one of the background dancers.
But even the background dancers have to audition. And that involves singing a solo in front of an audience of 40 classmates and adults.
A daunting prospect!
The thought of it left Sarah bouncing between "I can do that" and "I am going to embarrass myself to death".
After texting a friend later in the evening, she came to the kitchen and announced, "My friend isn't going to audition, so I have decided not to do it either. I am just going to be a part of the crew - backstage. Such a relief!"
In that moment, I recognized myself in her: looking for an excuse to back away from what I feared might happen. And missing a golden opportunity.
And so her mother and I both spoke up. I think Sarah expected to hear "Well, it's your decision ..."
Instead, we repeated our confidence in her ... and urged her to face her fears.
This morning, although she lost a night of sleep, Sarah said she was going to audition after school.
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It's now 10:00 pm and I am happy to report that Sarah stuck around after school - for almost three hours - and then took her turn on the stage and sang her song.
She said her stomach was in a knot all day. She had considered backing out but then decided all her anxiety would have been for nothing.
Now we wait to see if she made the cut.
For dinner we celebrated with some Chinese take-out from Yee Kee.
Sarah was exhausted but nothing could wipe that smile off her face all evening.
Tuesday, February 8, 2022
AN EXPERIMENT
I launched a little experiment today, Tuesday, February 8, 2022.
Gonna grow some green beans.
In sand.
I have high expectations, but it's going to take a couple of weeks before I see anything interesting.
It's one of those things where I have heard something that seems too good to be true. So now I need to see for myself.
If this turns out to be something, you are going to be hearing a lot about it from me in the coming weeks and months and years. And it will spawn further experiments.
But for now, I am going to patiently watch and pray. The beans won't even sprout for 6 to 8 days.
Sorry to be so vague - I am leery of getting my hopes up. But this has the potential to be so much more interesting than it sounds right now.
I will report soon ... when and if there is something to say.
Monday, February 7, 2022
NOW I GET IT
Sunday, February 6, 2022
BUT GOD HAS SHOWN ME ...
Saturday, February 5, 2022
POP EISEGESIS
Friday, February 4, 2022
EXEGESIS AND EISEGESIS
Here are two seminary terms that every believer ought to get familiar with: exegesis and eisegesis.
Maybe it will explain what has been bugging you about the sermons you've been hearing.
EXEGESIS
Exegesis is interpreting a passage of Scripture based on careful discernment of what the author set out to communicate.
Exegesis is the foundation for solid biblical preaching. It is what your pastor should do on a daily basis whenever his or her Bible is opened for study.
Put simply, exegesis is drawing meaning out of the text. Listening to what it wants to teach. The sermon is simply the vehicle for passing THAT along.
EISEGESIS
Eisegesis is when the "interpreter" comes to the text with an idea already formed, looking for a passage able to carry that idea.
The preacher may need to twist or inflate or shrink a particular passage to be able to fit the idea inside.
The opportunity to flash a verse or two on the screen in seeming support of the sermon's thesis is all that matters come Sunday morning.
The context of the verse is ignored. The sermon might be slick - depending on the rhetorical skills of the preacher - but it is predestined to mediocrity.
Or worse.
We should demand careful exegesis from our preachers. We should discourage eisegesis.
But we don't.
If the difference between exegesis and eisegesis is still a bit foggy, come back tomorrow when I will provide a textbook example of eisegesis - courtesy of a rising star of the mega-church scene who is also a "New York Times Bestselling Author".
Thursday, February 3, 2022
ERODING SOCIAL NORMS
Dan Ariely is Professor of Psychology and Behavioral Economics at Duke University - and seems to know what he's talking about.
In his book, Predictably Irrational, Ariely devotes a chapter to an idea that is worth chewing on.
That chapter has the provocative title "The Cost of Social Norms: Why We Are Happy to Do Things, but Not When We Are Paid to Do Them".
Ariely explains that we all intuitively understand two very different sets of rules guiding our lives: social norms and market norms.
Rules governing the role of money play very differently in the two circles of our lives. Payment is expected in the marketplace - and it had better be commensurate with time, skill, and effort.
In social situations, on the other hand, a payment would be insulting and counterproductive. A gift is the furthest you can go without being insulting.
Ariely imagines a Thanksgiving dinner where a son-in-law stands up at the conclusion of the meal, praises the host and says, "Mom, for all the love you've put into this, how much do I owe you? Do you think three hundred dollars will do it?"
The celebration would come to a hasty and awkward conclusion and the man would not be invited back next year.
Ariely goes on to explain that there are quite a few careers - such as law enforcement, military service, and education - where workers are motivated by more than the salary. "It's the social norms - pride in their profession and a sense of duty - that will motivate them."
This makes sense of a distressing trend I observed as a teacher: a growing job dissatisfaction.
I feel like America is relationally poor ... and growing poorer. As our material wealth has grown, our relational wealth has decreased.
In those careers that have traditionally depended on workers performing for the greater good of society, if the social motivation is eroded and all the focus goes to market motivation, you end up with unhappy workers. Or lazy workers.
Because how much do you have to pay teachers to make it worth their time - in purely marketplace terms - to spend all day every day instructing junior high students, for example?
What role might this play in "The Great Resignation" that is taking place across the American workplace even beyond our schools?
Wednesday, February 2, 2022
THE ANTI-MISSIONARY
I love irony. Don't you?
I think God loves irony too. There's a lot of it in the Bible.
One instance of irony I had never noticed before this morning: Saul's conversion story in Acts 9.
The disciples had been scattered outward from Jerusalem because of widespread persecution following the stoning of Stephen.
Saul, after thoroughly terrorizing the believers around Jerusalem, was now traveling to Damascus.
Why go there?
Damascus was the next big city outside of Jerusalem, about 150 miles away. Quite a few Jews lived there.
It seems reasonable to assume that, knowing quite a few believers had fled Jerusalem, Saul had left the city and was headed to the next likely hub in an effort to stop the spread of the Christian faith.
The New Testament's most successful missionary started out failing as its greatest ANTI-missionary!
Tuesday, February 1, 2022
STRUCTURE
Some nights I get started writing on a topic and it proves too complex to complete at 10:30 pm, when my mind is not at peak performance. And all I can think about is climbing into bed.
Tonight is one of those nights.
For that reason - and others - I am trying to shift my daily writing to mornings.
So far, rather spotty success.
In fact, my whole morning routine has been jumbled now that my schedule has changed and I am working from home and don't have to leave for school at 7:05.
I still have certain duties (like cooking breakfast for Sarah) and time-bound obligations (like driving Sarah to a friend's house to catch a ride to school) and activities that get my day started right (like Scripture study and physical exercise). And I am still waking up between 5 and 6:00.
So I am currently experimenting.
Structure will come in time.