Isaiah 30:1 says,
"Ah, stubborn children," declares the Lord, "who carry out a plan, but not mine, and who make an alliance, but not of my Spirit, that they may add sin to sin."
These words describe the starting point for every one of us.
We are all carrying out a plan for our lives. We have plans for our days, our careers, our relationships, our retirement, our future. The problem is not that we have a plan. The problem is that our plan is often not God's plan.
Isaiah says we also make alliances, but not with the Spirit. We place our trust in our own wisdom, the approval of others, the values of the world, and sometimes even the lies of the enemy.
The Hebrew imagery behind "making an alliance" literally refers to pouring out a drink offering to a deity. In other words, we are always giving our devotion to something. We are always trusting something. We are always worshiping something.
The question is: What are we pouring ourselves out for?
If it is anything other than God, the result is predictable. Isaiah says we "add sin to sin."
One bad decision leads to another. One compromise makes the next compromise easier. One lie requires another lie.
The mess accumulates.
It's a little like dirty dishes in the kitchen. One plate doesn't seem like a problem. Neither does the next one. But eventually the sink is overflowing, the counters are covered, and in time the mess can spread into every room of the house.
We become spiritual hoarders, surrounded by the consequences of choices we never intended to pile up so high.
But notice how God addresses His people:
"Ah, stubborn children."
There is frustration in those words, but there is also affection.
There is disappointment, but there is also relationship.
God doesn't call them failures. He doesn't call them lost causes. He doesn't call them enemies.
He calls them children.
That is important because many of us imagine that our failures have somehow severed our connection with God. We convince ourselves that He has finally had enough. That He's washed His hands of us. That He's turned His back.
But Isaiah presents a different picture.
A good father does not walk away from a disobedient child. He moves toward that child. He corrects. He teaches. He guides. He restores.
He doesn't abandon the relationship.
And our heavenly Father is better than the very best earthly father.